Chic Commuter Comfort: Finding the Perfect Non-Frumpy Work Flat
REYES’ black leather ballet flats offer the perfect fusion of style and comfort
I've done it. Maybe you have too — sacrificing comfort for style.
In my 20s, it was all about the look. Comfort took a backseat. Fast forward a few decades, things have changed.
I help my clients embrace this newfound appreciation for both style and function. Especially in this post-pandemic era, I've noticed many client closets with heels simply gathering dust.
Work-life dynamics have evolved too. Gone are the days of restrictive workwear or sky-high heels. We juggle dropping off the kids, catching the train, and Ubering to the next meeting, then to drinks or dinner. All this hustle and bustle just can't be done in 3" heels. The real challenge? Looking chic without compromising on comfort.
Don’t misunderstand. There's still a place for a killer heel—just not on the daily.
I have to admit, years ago, I barely gave flats a second glance. They seemed "frumpy" or something only my mom would choose (sorry mom!). And as we all learn with age and experience, thankfully comes wisdom. So it's not about dismissing flats altogether—it's about choosing the right ones and how you style them with a full look.
Keep reading for some fresh Fall 2023 style tips on choosing comfy yet fashionable flats for both work and play.
Metro Moves: The Commuter Flat Makes Its Comeback
More and more brands are recognizing that women today seek a balance between comfort and style while on-the-go.
We've seen the elevated fashion sneaker for the past few years, and it's still here. Along comes upscale Birkenstocks on runways, who would have thought? Now, it's the chic flat's moment. Think trendy loafers, statement ballet flats, and the revamped Mary Jane. I'm not talking about the chunky loafers Miranda scoffed at in "The Devil Wears Prada." Instead, I'm highlighting the sophisticated versions gracing the runways—perfect for our daily grind. A flats renaissance has been long overdue. Now I stand corrected, and am totally here for it.
Stay current with metallic colors, like these silver loafers from Reformation
What's Trending Now? There Are So Many Options to Choose From!
So, which flat is versatile enough for both work and the weekend?
Your answer lies in your "Elevated 3"—the three descriptors you want your wardrobe to embody. It's a concept I introduce to my clients from the get-go.
For those who like more of a classic aesthetic with a hint of modern flair, a contemporary ballet flat is your best bet. The options are abundant, but for work, it's wise to lean towards timeless and adaptable designs like this one with a modern toe shape. If you like a little more contemporary, check out the metallic, pop of color, or patent leather options. Mary Janes are also a great pick for the office and travel, adding a little retro-chic. If your office tends to be more laid-back and casual, or for weekends when you want to do a little more than a sneaker, a trendy loafer—with dope hardware or a sleek almond-toe fits the bill.
To make sure your flats complement the times rather than date you, pair them with current silhouettes to avoid looking dowdy. Some no-fail combos include:
Trench Coat + Midi Sweater Dress + Ballet Flats: Seamlessly transition from the office to an evening out.
Blazer + Fitted Top + Wide-Leg Pants + Loafers: This look is modern with timeless appeal. Swap pants with wide-leg denim for a polished weekend look.
Oversized Button-Down Shirt + Ankle-Length Pants + Mary Janes: A familiar combo that's usually paired with sneakers, but it gets an upgrade with classic or edgy Mary Janes, ideal for fall.
Bring lady-like refinement to your feet with these Vivaia bow flats
Function Over Fads: Prioritizing What Truly Matters in Your Ideal Flat
Function should always outweigh fleeting fads. Yes, there are hella cute options out there right now … buuut are they comfy? Will you wear them next season? Can you walk from Grand Central over a few avenues to the office comfortably? Your shoes should complement your daily routines, not just your outfit.
All this to say, not every flat is universally suitable for comfort. Choose options that echo your style and also have comfort-enhancing features. Gone are the days where we only have Easy Spirit nurse shoes to choose from.
Consider these when choosing ...
Sole and arch support to help alleviate pressure points
The weight of the whole shoe (no point of walking in loafers if they're too heavy)
More toe wiggle room in the toe box (prevents bunions, be mindful of the extreme pointed toe)
Anti-slip soles (well because they just make sense, and when you're rushing you'll be glad you chose them)
Top-notch flexible and breathable materials
Zara’s pointed-toe chain flats offer just the right amount of edge
While the lure of sticking to one style might be strong, diversifying is key. I recommend this not just for flats, but all of your shoes in general. Different days and moods demand different styles. Remember our shoes face more wear and tear than any other wardrobe item, so make sure to rotate!
Even with these tips some might struggle to piece it together— there’s no shame in seeking help or inspiration. Even the most seemingly put-together women need a guiding hand sometimes. If the shoe fits, wear it. If not, perhaps it’s time for a stylist to intervene.
Feel free to book a complimentary call with us. We offer virtual and in-person full styling services for the professional woman who is looking for a little help to get her wardrobe finally to where she wants it to be!